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Once a cheater... Always a cheater?

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I disagree, because I believe that everyone can regret of bad choices (no matter how much they are), looking for redemption when they choose to follow new ways in their lives.

Everyone deserves a second chance. B|

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Well it depends in my view. If a person genuinely make up the mind to live a more decent life as can be seen in a deeply religious persons, then this saying is not true.

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It always depends on the person. If that is true, then we could say that a murderer, thief, criminal, will always be what they are. People do change, though there are people who choose to live like that, we cannot say that all of the people with these qualities will never change. There is always room for change. 

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I agree once a cheater always a cheater. 

if anyone ever cheated on me, that would be the end of it. 

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Maybe everyone does deserve a second chance but depends on the situation. Knowing how I am I would never forgive a cheater because if they really love their significant other they wouldn't have cheated in the first place. I can't be with someone who will keep reminding me when I look at them that they have been with someone else, it's just not the same.

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It depends.. I'm really keen on not forgetting people once they broke your trust but if that person is extremely sorry and I mean EXTREMELY, like you could smell the regret from miles away then it may be good to try to rebuild the relationship, especially if you think it's worth it. It may take years for things to go back to normal though.

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There was a time when I believed in this saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater" and got into a relationship with a person who keeps on doing it no matter how many times I forgive him. I guess other people will get tired with that kind of loop and will just give up and move on, but I did not. I know it sounds idiotic but when you truly love a person, you most likely do crazy things and make stupid decisions. So I stick with that person.

We've been together for years now and I can gladly say that he has now changed and never ever did try to hurt me anymore so I guess it only depends on that person if he/she will stay a cheater or will change for the person they love.

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Once a cheater always a cheater. Look at it this way. He/she knew he was wrong and kept doing it and the only reason he regretted it because you found out about it. It only benefits him. It's best to find someone that never was and will be a cheater. 

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