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Could you forgive a lie?

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If I can forgive (because it's not very easy for me :|), it would be after an assessment of the reasons involved in the lie because whatever happens, I always prefer to hear the truth.

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I hate lies and liars. My husband lies sometimes, which is one of the few disagreements between us. 

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I have tried for forgive liars before and they always seem to lie again and again so can't really trust them. Once they have lied I can't forgive very easily. 

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It depends on what the lie was about and why they lied to me. 

Little white lies are sometimes ok, but other bigger lies are unforgivable. 

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I can forgive, but I won't be able to forget the lie. A lie, no matter how small, will always get in the way of a relationship or friendship. Lie once to me, and I will always be on guard and doubtful of what you're going to say. That is something that can't be helped. 

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I always hear this question and I always say the same answer. Whatever the other person did to me, I can still forgive that person. If God forgives, why can't I? But of course it would not be the same gain, like for instance, someone I trust has done something so bad that I got mad towards the person. Then this person asks for forgiveness, I'll give it. What's done is done, But I cannot trust this person the same way I trusted him before. There's still trust but not in full.

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I have forgiven so many lies but can't forget them especially when it was for very important reasons. My husband lies to me a lot and that has made me a bitter person. 

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I can forgive and forget a lie if it's not a dangerous one. Lies in a relationship maybe hard to forgive, and if one tries to forgive for religious sake they may not be forgotten.

 

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On 9/3/2016 at 4:10 AM, Ghost_Writer said:

If I can forgive (because it's not very easy for me :|), it would be after an assessment of the reasons involved in the lie because whatever happens, I always prefer to hear the truth.

I guess for me it is depend on the type of lie. If it is small one and forgivable then yes may be I can do it. But if not then I don't think I can forgive that person. Even if I say him so, from inside I will not feel as good as before for that person.

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Lies are not accepted for me. sadly, sometimes I am in such a situation that I have to forgive lies. There are things that my parents always hid from me. Now I cannot cut my relationship with my father and mother just because thy hid truth from me.

Since I don't accept lies, I try not to lie to the people I care.

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I could never forget a lie unless it's something reasonable like hiding a surprise or things like that, otherwise it's a breach of trust that I could never overlook. Imagine if you forgive someone for lying and they do it again, why would you risk doing that when there are so many honest people in this world? Not worth the risk.

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Depending on the lie I guess. If it's just with small things then definitely I would forgive that lie but if it's a big deal like cheating for instance, I don't know. Telling lies will certainly break other people's trust especially once that person know that you lied. I might say that I can't forgive if it's a big lie but I think that also depends who that person is.

Probably I can say that I can forgive but will not and will never forget.

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Yes. I don't get what the big deal is myself. I'd only be angry if someone lies about something that can endanger my life, health or family. If it's just a small lie then I don't really mind. Some people lie to not hurt others. 

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